People go out and spend fortunes on clothes they think will look cool. What they don't know is cool clothes are all in your closet!
Steps
Try to mix colors that will go well with each other eg. black and white, pink and black, purple and blue.
Leggings can also go well with long shirts and jumpers, not only skirts or dresses.
Make your clothes match with your hairstyles eg. high ponytail with tracksuit
Tips
Don't be afraid to try different combinations of clothes.
Warnings
If you go overboard in mixing clothes, you will look very bad.
How to Change Your Whole Personality
Want to change your whole personality? Think that your right-now personality is just annoying, boring, too sad, etc.? Here's a way to change that!
Steps
Find out what you want your new self to be like. Mysterious? Preppy? Funny? Stupid? Annoying?
Then, figure out what changes will be made. And figure out if you actually want to change. Or is this just you on a low?
Distinguish what is it you want to emulate. Don't just look at a person and say "Yep, I want to be like that." Find out exactly what it is that you admire--How they handle a situation, or their word choice? Make sure to write all this stuff down in a notebook.
Pick out the characteristics you want. Write down the parts of the character you want to be. Make sure to also write down how the character responds. Maybe you like the way they respond to certain situations, how they treat others, making friends, a bully, etc.
Look the part. You don't have to go out and get a new wardrobe, but maybe adding some new jewelry or changing the way your hair looks, changing the way you smile, laugh, hold yourself, anything.
Make changes to the way you talk. Does your voice quiver when you're mad, or do you talk loudly, or quietly. Practice changing your voice and try to keep the way of talking for a while before doing the next steps.
Change your attitude. Do you want to be preppy and happy towards things, or funny and clever, or do you want to be spunky and hard? It may take time to get used to that, so take your time changing it and take it step by step.
Break any bad habits that you may be doing. They are figments of your old personality, and if you want a better personality, make the way you act better.
Tips
Do this step by step. You want to change yourself completely and it will take some time before you actually do it.
Maybe do it for the summer and then in the fall people will see the new you.
Don't get frustrated if you don't change right away. Like I said, it'll take some time.
Is there something you absolutely love that you can't sacrifice? Then keep it! It is most important to feel good about your new self.
NEVER change who you are because other people don't like you. If you are a nerd, don't become a prep just because they are 'cool'. Go take a look at a group of true goths at your school (The kind that are goth because it is a way to express themselves, not because they think they are vampires.) They are all standing around laughing at the preppy people and making jokes about how every blonde at the school will work for them some day.
If you think you cannot change who you are because of parents or other people in your life, change yourself in small ways. Cut down habits you don't like and introduce new ones. If mom or dad asks what's up, explain to them (DON'T yell or argue) that there is nothing wrong with your self-esteem, that you are just trying to be more comfortable with yourself.
Sometimes, it might be hard to change completely but don't worry, you can do this step by step and make sure that people around are liking the way you behave. If they don't, it will be hard for you to make friends like that.
Be Popular at School if You're Not Popular Already
Do you find you still have the same friends that you did from Kindergarten? Or that you long to be fit in with the 'it' crowd? If you are looking for popularity or just a couple more friends. Read on..
Steps
This transformation should not take place in the middle of term. Start of the year is perfect, but start of term will do just fine.
Get your hair cut. No-one will pay any attention if you still look like the same person you were before.
Go shopping. Try to create an enviable yet affordable look. Buy from Hollister, Abercrombie & Fitch, Target, Primark, New look, Tammy and Topshop, throw in some designer pieces to make your look more enviable, if you can't afford them buy them from second-hand stores. Or
Try some new make-up. Go for the natural look instead of too full-on. Let the person working there show you what looks good on you.
Go and talk to people about something they're interested in. Hopefully people will come and talk to you to compliment you on your new look.
Have good posture. Keep your back straight, shoulders back, tummy and bum pulled in. It'll make you appear more confident and every popular girl has confidence.
Warnings
Never ever ever ever ever ever never ever NEVER EVER EVER EVER EVER leave behind your old friends. Ever.
Don't boast to much about what you have. It's fine to flaunt but not to boast or no-one will wanna be your friend and that sorta defeats the object.
Money
A new haircut
new clothes
make-up
confidence
Tuesday, March 2, 2010
How to Earn Like a Dump Girl
Acting dumb is actually a great way of flirting with boys and men who are not very intelligent, and it will get you lots of attention! Here is how you can achieve the Dumb Girl Attitude!
Steps
Embrace the "dumb blond" stereotype! Blonds may be perfectly intelligent, but the stereotype has power! Dye your hair blond or just keep it the colour that it is!
Trip over many items! There is nothing dumber than tripping over a curb or a basketball or something!
Use exclamation points to end each sentence!
Look dumb! If you are in school then act like you don't know where you are and ask people if the cafeteria is this way - when there is a clear sign with CAFETERIA written on it! Go to the wrong classroom and sit down in someone else's chair. When they find you out, give that sickening smile that everyone hates!
Make silly mistakes all the time!
Support the same politicians your friends think are really cool. That shows you don't think for yourself, which is a hallmark of someone who is not the least bit smart!
Spell easy words wrong and hard words like muttonhead for example, right!
Read nothing but magazines about singers and rap stars, and know every detail about the actresses and actors and reality show stars who are hot right now! That shows that you don't spend your time thinking about important issues. In fact, it makes you look like a complete airhead! Won't everyone be fooled!
Buy things you don't need, like cutesy folders and the latest fashions, especially adorable but uncomfortable shoes!
Tips
A great way to look and act dumb is by laughing a lot - this gets everyone's attention - Don't laugh or act like an alien - that's just weird and not dumb!
Laugh very loudly so everyone can hear you - even if something was not funny!
Wear makeup and jewelry!
Warnings
Some people will think you are thick and that you need to take your head for a wobble. So don't go too over the top.
Don't be dumb - Just act like it!
Steps
Embrace the "dumb blond" stereotype! Blonds may be perfectly intelligent, but the stereotype has power! Dye your hair blond or just keep it the colour that it is!
Trip over many items! There is nothing dumber than tripping over a curb or a basketball or something!
Use exclamation points to end each sentence!
Look dumb! If you are in school then act like you don't know where you are and ask people if the cafeteria is this way - when there is a clear sign with CAFETERIA written on it! Go to the wrong classroom and sit down in someone else's chair. When they find you out, give that sickening smile that everyone hates!
Make silly mistakes all the time!
Support the same politicians your friends think are really cool. That shows you don't think for yourself, which is a hallmark of someone who is not the least bit smart!
Spell easy words wrong and hard words like muttonhead for example, right!
Read nothing but magazines about singers and rap stars, and know every detail about the actresses and actors and reality show stars who are hot right now! That shows that you don't spend your time thinking about important issues. In fact, it makes you look like a complete airhead! Won't everyone be fooled!
Buy things you don't need, like cutesy folders and the latest fashions, especially adorable but uncomfortable shoes!
Tips
A great way to look and act dumb is by laughing a lot - this gets everyone's attention - Don't laugh or act like an alien - that's just weird and not dumb!
Laugh very loudly so everyone can hear you - even if something was not funny!
Wear makeup and jewelry!
Warnings
Some people will think you are thick and that you need to take your head for a wobble. So don't go too over the top.
Don't be dumb - Just act like it!
How to Get the Perfect Personality
Do you ever wonder why you're being ignored, or never being asked to do things? It's probably because you haven't worked on your personality.
Steps
Evaluate your current personality. Are you preppy, skater, punk, goth, rocker, ext. And whatever category you fit in, how are you liked? Do you like your current personality position? If you want to change from one to another you must think about these things.
Let people be themselves around you. If people can't be themselves, then neither can you.
Fit the part. Whether that means wearing more black, or popping your collar, you have to feel like that personality before you become it.
In any personality, be kind. Trust me on this one. If your going for that stuck-up preppy, hard-to-get kind of person, stop. Right now. People just think that's shallow, and they will not want to be around you.
Be laid back. Just go with the flow, and don't create a fuss.
Make sure you're in on all things cool. This means browsing magazines, listening to radio, watching TV etc.
Try to get to know a lot of people. People will want to get to know you.
Tips
When you find your right personality, stick to it.
If you find you want to change your personality again, do it gradually.
Don't be the whiney wannabe professional victim who deludes him/herself into believing that s/he is persecuted by everybody, but accept it to yourself when people are attacking you and acknowledge the true scale on which it is happening
Just be who you feel like being - most other people's opinions shouldn't really have an influence on this, as they aren't going to bring you much pleasure in life
Use common sense to get along with people. If they are foul to you, avoid them.
Warnings
Do not become something you're not, whether that means learning to skateboard, cutting off all your hair, or buying a new wardrobe etc.
Don't forget time for yourself
Don't even bother trying to change your personality if it's not evil or stupid - just go about your life and do that which you feel like doing, not the standard actions of the so-called 'safe' social norm that locks people into a cycle of mental illness and failure. If you're a teenager wanted to be liked more amongst peers, remember that the silly, destructive behaviour that people may inflict upon you will probably fade as these people get older and more mature
Be bold and defy the silly trends that are supposed to be non-conformist and those that are supposed to be conformist - develop your talents, question your beliefs and rise above the lesser beings who attack you for a feeling of security and ego gained from the belief that their 'safe' path is the best, when really they follow it because they are lazy idiots who refuse to make their lives better in the long term. If you're rejected, go about your everyday life without worrying about your reputation and silently sneer at the unpleasant people for failure and suffering - that's what humour is all about, after all!
Things You'll Need
Always smile
Critical thinking skills - they're handy for life in general
Steps
Evaluate your current personality. Are you preppy, skater, punk, goth, rocker, ext. And whatever category you fit in, how are you liked? Do you like your current personality position? If you want to change from one to another you must think about these things.
Let people be themselves around you. If people can't be themselves, then neither can you.
Fit the part. Whether that means wearing more black, or popping your collar, you have to feel like that personality before you become it.
In any personality, be kind. Trust me on this one. If your going for that stuck-up preppy, hard-to-get kind of person, stop. Right now. People just think that's shallow, and they will not want to be around you.
Be laid back. Just go with the flow, and don't create a fuss.
Make sure you're in on all things cool. This means browsing magazines, listening to radio, watching TV etc.
Try to get to know a lot of people. People will want to get to know you.
Tips
When you find your right personality, stick to it.
If you find you want to change your personality again, do it gradually.
Don't be the whiney wannabe professional victim who deludes him/herself into believing that s/he is persecuted by everybody, but accept it to yourself when people are attacking you and acknowledge the true scale on which it is happening
Just be who you feel like being - most other people's opinions shouldn't really have an influence on this, as they aren't going to bring you much pleasure in life
Use common sense to get along with people. If they are foul to you, avoid them.
Warnings
Do not become something you're not, whether that means learning to skateboard, cutting off all your hair, or buying a new wardrobe etc.
Don't forget time for yourself
Don't even bother trying to change your personality if it's not evil or stupid - just go about your life and do that which you feel like doing, not the standard actions of the so-called 'safe' social norm that locks people into a cycle of mental illness and failure. If you're a teenager wanted to be liked more amongst peers, remember that the silly, destructive behaviour that people may inflict upon you will probably fade as these people get older and more mature
Be bold and defy the silly trends that are supposed to be non-conformist and those that are supposed to be conformist - develop your talents, question your beliefs and rise above the lesser beings who attack you for a feeling of security and ego gained from the belief that their 'safe' path is the best, when really they follow it because they are lazy idiots who refuse to make their lives better in the long term. If you're rejected, go about your everyday life without worrying about your reputation and silently sneer at the unpleasant people for failure and suffering - that's what humour is all about, after all!
Things You'll Need
Always smile
Critical thinking skills - they're handy for life in general
How to Act Serious, Emotionless, and Professional
Are you a teenage kid, bullied? Rejected by your peers? Turned down by every girl you were attracted too? Treated like a "loser", "dork" or a joke? This article isn't about improving yourself or being more mature and developing relationships with the school goody goodies. It is an option for those unfortunate few who are hurt constantly by peers, and are sick of being everyone's "fool".
Steps
Lessen your smiles and laughter, this is the single most important step, remember, you can laugh as much as you want over a joke by yourself in a quiet place, in your own mind, or at home, but when a person tells you a joke, or something funny or joyful, don't smile or laugh, but be nice, express your emotions by your words, not by your facial expression.
Girls and bullying: Perhaps you have had girls come up to you and act like they were friendly, (ex. "Hi Fred! how was your day"?), or maybe they giggle at you behind your back? the ones that act as if they think your "cool" and want to hang out with you, but in reality they think your a "dork" and a "loser"? Or are you bullied by other students? if either of these things have happened to you, simply ignore it, don't smile, frown or show any facial expression, ignore them completely and walk away.
Work hard at the tasks you are given, assignments, etc. Being a high achiever will give the impression of "professionalism", another box now ticked, it will also benefit you later in and all throughout your life.
During lunch breaks, recess etc. Retreat to a quiet place, such as the library or somewhere where you are alone.
The stare (the second most important step). Have a serious, "no funny stuff" look on your face whenever you are moving through an area where others are present, refer to the picture below for a better example:
Talk less: Not just meaning listen more, but also, literally, speaking as less as possible during the day. during class, do not speak to anybody unless spoken to by a teacher, and only a teacher.
Speak formally: This is the 3rd most important step, speak clearly, use formal speech and always address teachers, your peers and people by their proper names, unless they specifically ask otherwise.
In class, pay attention and work hard. Choose a desk at the far back of the class, a desk by itself away from your class group, but not so far to the point where you aren't able to pay attention or can't see what the teacher is teaching.
If a girl is giving indications that she likes you, keep with the "cold, hard" attitude, after all, if you have been rejected by every girl you've liked, perhaps you could be making these "indications" up in your own mind. Where as in reality, she isn't giving you a thought.
Tips
This article was not intended for teaching you how to have an entirely new personality, it's simply about giving others the impression that you are this type of person. For what ever reason you want them to think of you that way.
Warnings
You will be avoided by your peers, avoided even further, so be emotionally prepared.
Maybe you want to try out this "new personality" to play hard to get with everybody. perhaps you believe if you sit there with a blank face and look lonely, a kind good looking girl or a friendly guy will come over and offer their friendship to you, be prepared to think again. (it is highly likely you will instead be avoided)
But if you can handle all this, if you are fully prepared to live a lonely school/work life, then by all means, follow these steps, if not, if you really are just trying to be 'harder to get', you might end up just making the situation worse, CONSIDER THIS before trying out the 'new you' tomorrow.
How to Act Like a Dumb Girl
Acting dumb is actually a great way of flirting with boys and men who are not very intelligent, and it will get you lots of attention! Here is how you can achieve the Dumb Girl Attitude!
Steps
Embrace the "dumb blond" stereotype! Blonds may be perfectly intelligent, but the stereotype has power! Dye your hair blond or just keep it the colour that it is!
Trip over many items! There is nothing dumber than tripping over a curb or a basketball or something!
Use exclamation points to end each sentence!
Look dumb! If you are in school then act like you don't know where you are and ask people if the cafeteria is this way - when there is a clear sign with CAFETERIA written on it! Go to the wrong classroom and sit down in someone else's chair. When they find you out, give that sickening smile that everyone hates!
Make silly mistakes all the time!
Support the same politicians your friends think are really cool. That shows you don't think for yourself, which is a hallmark of someone who is not the least bit smart!
Spell easy words wrong and hard words like muttonhead for example, right!
Read nothing but magazines about singers and rap stars, and know every detail about the actresses and actors and reality show stars who are hot right now! That shows that you don't spend your time thinking about important issues. In fact, it makes you look like a complete airhead! Won't everyone be fooled!
Buy things you don't need, like cutesy folders and the latest fashions, especially adorable but uncomfortable shoes!
Tips
A great way to look and act dumb is by laughing a lot - this gets everyone's attention - Don't laugh or act like an alien - that's just weird and not dumb!
Laugh very loudly so everyone can hear you - even if something was not funny!
Wear makeup and jewelry!
Warnings
Some people will think you are thick and that you need to take your head for a wobble. So don't go too over the top.
Don't be dumb - Just act like it!
Steps
Lessen your smiles and laughter, this is the single most important step, remember, you can laugh as much as you want over a joke by yourself in a quiet place, in your own mind, or at home, but when a person tells you a joke, or something funny or joyful, don't smile or laugh, but be nice, express your emotions by your words, not by your facial expression.
Girls and bullying: Perhaps you have had girls come up to you and act like they were friendly, (ex. "Hi Fred! how was your day"?), or maybe they giggle at you behind your back? the ones that act as if they think your "cool" and want to hang out with you, but in reality they think your a "dork" and a "loser"? Or are you bullied by other students? if either of these things have happened to you, simply ignore it, don't smile, frown or show any facial expression, ignore them completely and walk away.
Work hard at the tasks you are given, assignments, etc. Being a high achiever will give the impression of "professionalism", another box now ticked, it will also benefit you later in and all throughout your life.
During lunch breaks, recess etc. Retreat to a quiet place, such as the library or somewhere where you are alone.
The stare (the second most important step). Have a serious, "no funny stuff" look on your face whenever you are moving through an area where others are present, refer to the picture below for a better example:
Talk less: Not just meaning listen more, but also, literally, speaking as less as possible during the day. during class, do not speak to anybody unless spoken to by a teacher, and only a teacher.
Speak formally: This is the 3rd most important step, speak clearly, use formal speech and always address teachers, your peers and people by their proper names, unless they specifically ask otherwise.
In class, pay attention and work hard. Choose a desk at the far back of the class, a desk by itself away from your class group, but not so far to the point where you aren't able to pay attention or can't see what the teacher is teaching.
If a girl is giving indications that she likes you, keep with the "cold, hard" attitude, after all, if you have been rejected by every girl you've liked, perhaps you could be making these "indications" up in your own mind. Where as in reality, she isn't giving you a thought.
Tips
This article was not intended for teaching you how to have an entirely new personality, it's simply about giving others the impression that you are this type of person. For what ever reason you want them to think of you that way.
Warnings
You will be avoided by your peers, avoided even further, so be emotionally prepared.
Maybe you want to try out this "new personality" to play hard to get with everybody. perhaps you believe if you sit there with a blank face and look lonely, a kind good looking girl or a friendly guy will come over and offer their friendship to you, be prepared to think again. (it is highly likely you will instead be avoided)
But if you can handle all this, if you are fully prepared to live a lonely school/work life, then by all means, follow these steps, if not, if you really are just trying to be 'harder to get', you might end up just making the situation worse, CONSIDER THIS before trying out the 'new you' tomorrow.
How to Act Like a Dumb Girl
Acting dumb is actually a great way of flirting with boys and men who are not very intelligent, and it will get you lots of attention! Here is how you can achieve the Dumb Girl Attitude!
Steps
Embrace the "dumb blond" stereotype! Blonds may be perfectly intelligent, but the stereotype has power! Dye your hair blond or just keep it the colour that it is!
Trip over many items! There is nothing dumber than tripping over a curb or a basketball or something!
Use exclamation points to end each sentence!
Look dumb! If you are in school then act like you don't know where you are and ask people if the cafeteria is this way - when there is a clear sign with CAFETERIA written on it! Go to the wrong classroom and sit down in someone else's chair. When they find you out, give that sickening smile that everyone hates!
Make silly mistakes all the time!
Support the same politicians your friends think are really cool. That shows you don't think for yourself, which is a hallmark of someone who is not the least bit smart!
Spell easy words wrong and hard words like muttonhead for example, right!
Read nothing but magazines about singers and rap stars, and know every detail about the actresses and actors and reality show stars who are hot right now! That shows that you don't spend your time thinking about important issues. In fact, it makes you look like a complete airhead! Won't everyone be fooled!
Buy things you don't need, like cutesy folders and the latest fashions, especially adorable but uncomfortable shoes!
Tips
A great way to look and act dumb is by laughing a lot - this gets everyone's attention - Don't laugh or act like an alien - that's just weird and not dumb!
Laugh very loudly so everyone can hear you - even if something was not funny!
Wear makeup and jewelry!
Warnings
Some people will think you are thick and that you need to take your head for a wobble. So don't go too over the top.
Don't be dumb - Just act like it!
How to Be Cute
Ever wanted to be cute? Cuteness is a quality that transcends trying to be like somebody else. True cute is about making the most of your sweet, friendly, and innocent nature, and projecting it wherever you go. It is about being genuine, smiling, and greeting others with delight; it's about sharing warmth with friends, colleagues and people you meet on the street. Being cute is a few steps away.
Steps
Smile. Do not look like a goof when you smile; just smile like you always do. Be cute and happy, but not over the top! Be yourself; don't pretend to be someone else!
Laugh heartily. As with smiling, laughter is a reflection of the soul. Laugh to feel good, laugh to cheer up others and laugh with others. Spread the need for more cheer and people as it gets. Make sure not to overdo it. Most people find excessive laughter annoying, not cute. Also make certain that people don't find your laugh to be generally annoying.
Use eye contact. Eye contact is a way of engaging others directly. It shows interest, it shows that you are attempting to bring this person into your sphere and keep them there. Don't stare though, just use common sense and remember that it is about communicating with other people, not sucking them into your sphere of influence.
Have fun. Everyone likes a person who is fun, social, and outgoing!
Be interested in others. Attractiveness comes from being happy, vivacious and bubbly. This translates to being a person who engages others in conversation, takes an interest in what others say and shows a genuine concern for the other person's interests. Active listening is a very important part of appearing attractive to others.
Be as smart as you are. Being smart is not just about book-smarts; it is about using your mind to its fullest potential by discovering what you are good at and doing it really well. Do not act dumb because you misguidedly think this is cute. It is not cute; it is telling others that you can be overlooked and ignored when genuine opportunities for good things in life come your way. Live your life to its fullest potential by learning as much as you can and finding out as early on in life what you are good at doing.
Be well groomed. It is your choice as to what products you decide to groom yourself with and what labels you choose to wear. All that is important to remember is that a well-presented person will always appear attractive. Wearing clothes that make you feel good and a hairstyle that accents your best features are always a helpful step in boosting your self confidence and this will shine through in your personality.
Give compliments. Everybody loves someone who sees good in others and makes them feel good. It can be a great conversation starter sometime too.(Where'd you get your shoes? They're so cute!)Just make sure you mean it; say it in your normal tone of voice, not a squeaky, overenthusiastic one.
Dress comfortably.Wear comfortable clothes in your style, like a pair of form-fitting jeans- not too tight, but then again, not too loose either. Whatever you decide to wear, make sure that it's cute and totally you because you don't want to be someone you're not. Wear lots of colors, either pastel or bright.
Shyness isn't a bad thing. It gives you this kind of mysterious edge. People keep asking you questions and keep wanting to talk to you to get to know you more. Shy, but sweet and bubbly people are absolutely adorable.
Don't be too loud. Period. If your voice is loud enough to be heard two rooms away, most likely you're being too loud.
Tips
It is okay to flirt, but don't overdo it and don't be nasty. Flirting is fun to a point but can send the wrong message to other people if it is the only thing that you ever do, such as immaturity and possibly giving mixed signals about fancying someone when you really don't. Pick the right moments and be with the right people to behave this way.
Select clothes that suit you. "Clothes make the man." This rule only applies to clothes that look good on your figure and make you feel good.What looks good on one person may not look good on you. So ask for a trusted friend's opinion. Buy the best quality items that you can within your budget. No need to buy designer brands that you cannot afford; there is always a perfectly decent substitute. What is more important is to assess your own likes and dislikes in clothing and to make sure that the clothes flatter you, rather than you flattering the clothing designer by buying something that just doesn't do it for you.
Give compliments. Everybody loves someone who sees good in others and makes them feel good. It can be a great conversation starter sometimes too.(Where'd you get your shoes? Their so cute!) Just make sure you mean it; say it in your normal tone of voice, not a squeeky overenthusiastic one.
Remember, while the other attributes are important, they are not enough to make you cute enough! Cuteness that uplifts and pleases the others' hearts is proportional to the nobility of heart (developed through meditation, philanthropy and reading of books which elevate the heart).
Remember, being cute will take time.. Just practice the following : smile, be sweet, and be friendly not annoying or fake.
Most important is to be yourself. Don't be a wanna be!
Warnings
Do not change your voice to an annoying squeaky wannabe cute tone. People will see right through you and that's not what you're aiming for.
Being cute is not about being rude or being too trendy or being a slave to fashion, nor is it about memorizing phrases from a TV show or popular book. It is about being the best person you can be and letting that shine forth.
Don't change who you are just to be cute. Fakes aren't attractive.
Don't think that being cute is being fake around others; it should come naturally. Your cuteness can come from the inside and project itself outward.
Don't let your need to be cute dominate over all else. Some people feel the need to be happy and bubbly all the time, but by doing so, they begin to think that they can never be upset. They become a crying shoulder for others, having to carry the weight of their own problems, as well as the problems of those around them. Everybody needs to release and cry sometimes, so don't think that in order to be cute, you must always be peppy and effervescent.
Things You'll Need
self confidence
great attitude
strong heart
motivation
Steps
Smile. Do not look like a goof when you smile; just smile like you always do. Be cute and happy, but not over the top! Be yourself; don't pretend to be someone else!
Laugh heartily. As with smiling, laughter is a reflection of the soul. Laugh to feel good, laugh to cheer up others and laugh with others. Spread the need for more cheer and people as it gets. Make sure not to overdo it. Most people find excessive laughter annoying, not cute. Also make certain that people don't find your laugh to be generally annoying.
Use eye contact. Eye contact is a way of engaging others directly. It shows interest, it shows that you are attempting to bring this person into your sphere and keep them there. Don't stare though, just use common sense and remember that it is about communicating with other people, not sucking them into your sphere of influence.
Have fun. Everyone likes a person who is fun, social, and outgoing!
Be interested in others. Attractiveness comes from being happy, vivacious and bubbly. This translates to being a person who engages others in conversation, takes an interest in what others say and shows a genuine concern for the other person's interests. Active listening is a very important part of appearing attractive to others.
Be as smart as you are. Being smart is not just about book-smarts; it is about using your mind to its fullest potential by discovering what you are good at and doing it really well. Do not act dumb because you misguidedly think this is cute. It is not cute; it is telling others that you can be overlooked and ignored when genuine opportunities for good things in life come your way. Live your life to its fullest potential by learning as much as you can and finding out as early on in life what you are good at doing.
Be well groomed. It is your choice as to what products you decide to groom yourself with and what labels you choose to wear. All that is important to remember is that a well-presented person will always appear attractive. Wearing clothes that make you feel good and a hairstyle that accents your best features are always a helpful step in boosting your self confidence and this will shine through in your personality.
Give compliments. Everybody loves someone who sees good in others and makes them feel good. It can be a great conversation starter sometime too.(Where'd you get your shoes? They're so cute!)Just make sure you mean it; say it in your normal tone of voice, not a squeaky, overenthusiastic one.
Dress comfortably.Wear comfortable clothes in your style, like a pair of form-fitting jeans- not too tight, but then again, not too loose either. Whatever you decide to wear, make sure that it's cute and totally you because you don't want to be someone you're not. Wear lots of colors, either pastel or bright.
Shyness isn't a bad thing. It gives you this kind of mysterious edge. People keep asking you questions and keep wanting to talk to you to get to know you more. Shy, but sweet and bubbly people are absolutely adorable.
Don't be too loud. Period. If your voice is loud enough to be heard two rooms away, most likely you're being too loud.
Tips
It is okay to flirt, but don't overdo it and don't be nasty. Flirting is fun to a point but can send the wrong message to other people if it is the only thing that you ever do, such as immaturity and possibly giving mixed signals about fancying someone when you really don't. Pick the right moments and be with the right people to behave this way.
Select clothes that suit you. "Clothes make the man." This rule only applies to clothes that look good on your figure and make you feel good.What looks good on one person may not look good on you. So ask for a trusted friend's opinion. Buy the best quality items that you can within your budget. No need to buy designer brands that you cannot afford; there is always a perfectly decent substitute. What is more important is to assess your own likes and dislikes in clothing and to make sure that the clothes flatter you, rather than you flattering the clothing designer by buying something that just doesn't do it for you.
Give compliments. Everybody loves someone who sees good in others and makes them feel good. It can be a great conversation starter sometimes too.(Where'd you get your shoes? Their so cute!) Just make sure you mean it; say it in your normal tone of voice, not a squeeky overenthusiastic one.
Remember, while the other attributes are important, they are not enough to make you cute enough! Cuteness that uplifts and pleases the others' hearts is proportional to the nobility of heart (developed through meditation, philanthropy and reading of books which elevate the heart).
Remember, being cute will take time.. Just practice the following : smile, be sweet, and be friendly not annoying or fake.
Most important is to be yourself. Don't be a wanna be!
Warnings
Do not change your voice to an annoying squeaky wannabe cute tone. People will see right through you and that's not what you're aiming for.
Being cute is not about being rude or being too trendy or being a slave to fashion, nor is it about memorizing phrases from a TV show or popular book. It is about being the best person you can be and letting that shine forth.
Don't change who you are just to be cute. Fakes aren't attractive.
Don't think that being cute is being fake around others; it should come naturally. Your cuteness can come from the inside and project itself outward.
Don't let your need to be cute dominate over all else. Some people feel the need to be happy and bubbly all the time, but by doing so, they begin to think that they can never be upset. They become a crying shoulder for others, having to carry the weight of their own problems, as well as the problems of those around them. Everybody needs to release and cry sometimes, so don't think that in order to be cute, you must always be peppy and effervescent.
Things You'll Need
self confidence
great attitude
strong heart
motivation
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