Tuesday, March 2, 2010

How to Get the Cool Look in Clothes

People go out and spend fortunes on clothes they think will look cool. What they don't know is cool clothes are all in your closet!
Steps

Try to mix colors that will go well with each other eg. black and white, pink and black, purple and blue.
Leggings can also go well with long shirts and jumpers, not only skirts or dresses.
Make your clothes match with your hairstyles eg. high ponytail with tracksuit

Tips

Don't be afraid to try different combinations of clothes.

Warnings

If you go overboard in mixing clothes, you will look very bad.
How to Change Your Whole Personality
Want to change your whole personality? Think that your right-now personality is just annoying, boring, too sad, etc.? Here's a way to change that!
Steps

Find out what you want your new self to be like. Mysterious? Preppy? Funny? Stupid? Annoying?
Then, figure out what changes will be made. And figure out if you actually want to change. Or is this just you on a low?
Distinguish what is it you want to emulate. Don't just look at a person and say "Yep, I want to be like that." Find out exactly what it is that you admire--How they handle a situation, or their word choice? Make sure to write all this stuff down in a notebook.
Pick out the characteristics you want. Write down the parts of the character you want to be. Make sure to also write down how the character responds. Maybe you like the way they respond to certain situations, how they treat others, making friends, a bully, etc.
Look the part. You don't have to go out and get a new wardrobe, but maybe adding some new jewelry or changing the way your hair looks, changing the way you smile, laugh, hold yourself, anything.
Make changes to the way you talk. Does your voice quiver when you're mad, or do you talk loudly, or quietly. Practice changing your voice and try to keep the way of talking for a while before doing the next steps.
Change your attitude. Do you want to be preppy and happy towards things, or funny and clever, or do you want to be spunky and hard? It may take time to get used to that, so take your time changing it and take it step by step.
Break any bad habits that you may be doing. They are figments of your old personality, and if you want a better personality, make the way you act better.

Tips

Do this step by step. You want to change yourself completely and it will take some time before you actually do it.
Maybe do it for the summer and then in the fall people will see the new you.
Don't get frustrated if you don't change right away. Like I said, it'll take some time.
Is there something you absolutely love that you can't sacrifice? Then keep it! It is most important to feel good about your new self.
NEVER change who you are because other people don't like you. If you are a nerd, don't become a prep just because they are 'cool'. Go take a look at a group of true goths at your school (The kind that are goth because it is a way to express themselves, not because they think they are vampires.) They are all standing around laughing at the preppy people and making jokes about how every blonde at the school will work for them some day.
If you think you cannot change who you are because of parents or other people in your life, change yourself in small ways. Cut down habits you don't like and introduce new ones. If mom or dad asks what's up, explain to them (DON'T yell or argue) that there is nothing wrong with your self-esteem, that you are just trying to be more comfortable with yourself.
Sometimes, it might be hard to change completely but don't worry, you can do this step by step and make sure that people around are liking the way you behave. If they don't, it will be hard for you to make friends like that.
Be Popular at School if You're Not Popular Already
Do you find you still have the same friends that you did from Kindergarten? Or that you long to be fit in with the 'it' crowd? If you are looking for popularity or just a couple more friends. Read on..
Steps

This transformation should not take place in the middle of term. Start of the year is perfect, but start of term will do just fine.
Get your hair cut. No-one will pay any attention if you still look like the same person you were before.
Go shopping. Try to create an enviable yet affordable look. Buy from Hollister, Abercrombie & Fitch, Target, Primark, New look, Tammy and Topshop, throw in some designer pieces to make your look more enviable, if you can't afford them buy them from second-hand stores. Or
Try some new make-up. Go for the natural look instead of too full-on. Let the person working there show you what looks good on you.
Go and talk to people about something they're interested in. Hopefully people will come and talk to you to compliment you on your new look.
Have good posture. Keep your back straight, shoulders back, tummy and bum pulled in. It'll make you appear more confident and every popular girl has confidence.

Warnings

Never ever ever ever ever ever never ever NEVER EVER EVER EVER EVER leave behind your old friends. Ever.
Don't boast to much about what you have. It's fine to flaunt but not to boast or no-one will wanna be your friend and that sorta defeats the object.


Money
A new haircut
new clothes
make-up
confidence

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